I was just getting ready to leave for work when this email from CaliValleyGirl popped up:
Just wanted to make sure that you didn't slip in the shower or anything...no long email needed, just a sign of life!
Heh.
I am here, just busy. Worked all day Saturday. Stayed up until 3 AM online with Amritas. Babysat yesterday. Eek. I came home from the experience thinking that there's no way I can be a mother, that I will do a horrible job, that I don't have the patience.
And then I caught my favorite episode of Scrubs ever, and realized that I probably will find the courage.
I got in bed last night and grabbed my Atlas Shrugged. And I remembered something that I hadn't thought of until last night: the men of Galt's Gulch only lived there one month of the year. They weren't allowed to wall themselves off from the reality of life; they had to keep jobs and live amongst the looters. But they returned to the gulch once a year to be with likeminded individuals.
So really, we have this gulch. The gulch is any time we get together, at the Milblogs Conference, at a SpouseBUZZ, at a house in Ohio, or even just typing on the internet until 3 AM.
Seems like we've had our gulch all along.
Posted by Sarah at November 24, 2008 09:40 AM | TrackBackI used to feel the same way about babysitting and "momming." (I did NOT enjoy babysitting...) But really, babysitting other people's kids is hugely different than taking care of your own - HUGELY. I promise. For so many reasons. And you're absolutely right - you'll find the courage; I'm sure of it! :-)
Thanks for pointing that out about Galt's Gulch, too - there's so much I don't remember from that book...
And I've tagged you as having a fabulous blog - please don't feel pressured to keep it going, but I wanted to pass on the compliment! :-)
Posted by: kannie at November 24, 2008 03:20 PMOnce a day here sure beats once a year.
I'd go crazy waiting for the next reunion!
Posted by: Amritas at November 24, 2008 03:57 PMI'm sure that the men of Galt's Gulch felt the same way I feel after coming home from SBL or the MilBlogging conference.
Posted by: HomefrontSix at November 25, 2008 03:42 AMYes, kannie is absolutely right on that one. Your own kids are totally different. Unless it's an adorable kid that you WANT to hang out with.... But that's fairly uncommon; kids are so annoying. Your own kids can bug you, but it IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT!!!
I am slowing getting through The Fountainhead. I am taking my time, kinda accidently. It's everything for me not to quote it by the paragraph on my bloggie. Next will be Atlas....
Posted by: Allison at November 25, 2008 07:32 PM